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"A doula, what?" "What in the world is a doula?" "'Babymoon' what does that mean, and what does that have to do with doulas?" Those are some of the questions that are asked, and mighty good ones at that! The word "doula" is a Greek word that actually means "woman's servant." We prefer calling it "mothering the mother." We believe that mothering the mother will allow her time and energy to mother the baby, and in turn the baby will mother the world.
Babymoon is named for the days following a birth, the postpartum period, comparable to a honeymoon after a marriage. During the babymoon, one is getting to know the new baby (and vice versa), falling in love, healing from childbirth, and bonding. In the past and in different cultures around the world women have caring neighbors, tribes, doulas and caregivers to support them during this babymoon period. In some tribes in the country of Mali, the mother gives birth and doesn't get up for 45 days. Her family brings her nourishing meals and teas, and the new mother nurses the baby, rests, and heals. However nowadays, our time seems to be expended, families live farther away, and our dependency on others for support is diminishing.
Statistics show with the support of a birth doula there are less interventions during childbirth, less use of vacuum or forceps, and less chance of unplanned cesarean section. With the support of a postpartum doula, there is less child abuse, less postpartum depression, greater bonding, and successful breastfeeding. |